You and your partner struggle to find quality time and manage to argue about bills, family holidays and the kids. There’s history and love there, but something is missing. What do you do? I’ll keep this one simple and short...

How are we doing is a question many couples ask one another ten arguments too late. Using "are we ok," as a preventive question instead of a reparative one is an opportunity to check in on your relationship. Many couples neglect to check in on their relationship before too much damage has been done. Assuming everything is fine and hoping for the other person to say something is a surefire way to end up in an unhappy situation.

If things aren't feeling right, speak up!